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But what amazed me was how many younger men there were, I think maybe the youngest that responded was 19, and it went up into the 70's. Weight and size are always huge issues with almost all women. I really think that women in general still need to explore their own bodies and try out different things to see what they like.
We are taught that men want a certain thing and if you are not that thing, you are a loser. Now, that is pleasant but it doesn’t really turn me on. He apologized that he was expecting a business call. He came back and was angry, saying he knew I would do that. Probably the first time I had taken charge of my sexuality and not just tried to be a “good girl” who never complained. I was a 49 year old woman when I started, a little overweight not super attractive with a surging libido. Starting this journey of exploration suddenly at my age is bizarre—funny, interesting, weird. its all just been such a revelation, it's been joyful.
When I put out an ad, the tricky part was coming up with what to say, especially a title.During the sexual revolution in the United States and Europe in the 1960s and 1970s, social attitudes to sexual issues underwent considerable changes.The advent of "the pill" and other forms of birth control, the Women's Liberation movement, and the legalization of abortion in many countries are believed to have led to a wider practice of casual sex.I came up with “Doesn’t Anybody Wanna Fuck Anymore? I got all of these responses and sorting them out was a chore. I guess he could say he was my bad boy because he was kinda nuts and he carried a gun. So what did you learn from all of the men you've met?I got very “Emily Post,” I felt like I needed to respond to all of them—“thank you, but no thank you.” And by 89, it was like forget that. I’ve learned that more men than one might suppose are attracted to a woman who has extra weight on her.